This can make a toddler feel like mom has been taken away or even rejected. she would prefer me if she is with me and strangers but at home I am no where in her priority list. Going by the earlier posts, my problem is likely due to my travel job. Please dont give up on your babies. So you are probably doing a fabulous job with making her feel safe with you and also maybe she hasnt yet started to suffer from separation anxiety. Skype is also, of course, an option, but your babies may not respond to that with any great interest there and then. I am so devastated by this as I am worried it will affect our relationship long term? When i do, shell cry & scream for daddy. Ive made the comment to my husband on several occasions, but now that my daughter is 3 and expresses herself verbally it is really affecting me. She even slapped me in the face. May I ask how your relationship is when dad is not around? His mother lets him do what he wants when he wants while Im at work, so I have no say so in the fact. Maybe the others can go out for a while during the weekends and you just stay at home and spend time together. Im a 26 yr old dad. She is having a tough time, but please let her know that this really is a normal development stage. It is good to know you are not the only one it is a hard thing to talk to anyone about so great to have a place to come and be honest with your feelings ..thank you. Do I leave my son and my partner so they can be together, or do I stay and let them make me feel worse. Unfortunately she has developed a deep bond with my mother (as to be expected) and not me. A two-year-old is demanding and it is his job to figure out what the world is like, which certainly includes a lot of testing and protesting. weekends wen i wanna spend time with my gal they comes in between n tells my husband to bring her over . In my opinion its not a healthy life for her or I. Have you ever considered that? My husband sees him an hour per day if that and goes out of town a lot. I've tried Philips avent, pigeon and now using hegen. You can also make sure your baby finishes one breast before . Give him a bah, feed him, put him to bed, give him his breakfast, get him dressed, take him out in his pram and do not take no for an answer or it will get worse. Lots of hugs and squeezes, even when she is wriggling and squirming. It hurts. He is adorable such an angel baby, doesnt cry unless hungry, sleeps all night from 3 months, ready with a smile. After college Im with her all the time, I play with her, feed her, do things that I feel is bonding but she still prefers my mother when given the choice. Paula, Stay At Home Mom Rejected By Baby Just show you love them and never give up on them. Join her in her happiness when dad come home and let her know that her love of dad is OK. Well, disobeing the court orders she left with the child to another state without any communication or notice of where she was going. Well, it of course depends on the situation; if the mom and baby live together and have had the possibility to develop a bond, and so on. It took me a while to get into the groove of motherhood not sure whether it was my age, post partum? I kind of gave up trying to figure it out, and just really tried to just remain bright and happy and easy going. Paula is right. So, maybe this isnt something thats recognized by a small child, but its eventually recognized, in my opinion. Why do I feel like she doesnt love me anymore. I work Monday-Friday from 830 am to 515 pm , i want to move alone with her to see if she gets a little attached to me, but its hard.. when were alone its great but as soon as he sees her he acts like thats his mom. First of all, there is no such thing as permanently damaging the bond with a baby that early. It hurt me so much, I feel as if lm not doing enough. You and your wife disagree on how to deal with several issues regarding your son and you take on the role of being the one disciplining him. Bonding can start at any time, even at 15 months old, even though it can take a bit longer to establish at that point. However, there is no way of telling ahead of time whether your baby will go happily from breast to bottle and back again. My husbands dad invited us to go to Branson and get away before my Husband starts the engineering program at K-State. My daughter is constantly wanting my attention and is not happy when im not around. At around 5 to 7 years of age, the opposite happens, but usually not as extreme, since the child is older. I just wanted to tell the parents here that this has nothing to do with your work or parenting style. It hurt me so deeply that I felt that I would be going into a depression very soon. My mom used to take care of her during the afternoon so I could study. In all honestly, she did take a bottle eventually. I cant help having my heart broken. Your daghter is still so young, just one year old. Dont worry. I have a 11 month old little girl. Not a good feeling. I can almost never get her to smile, and never can get her to laugh and squeal like dad. :) :) :). That is an excellent way to allow the two of you to bond. I used to have a very tight relationship with my parents. Try to see her reaction in the light of her little crisis, dont take it personally and dont worry. If I hold him, he wriggles and cries to get away. I started wearing lavender lotion every time i saw her, trying in some way to create a bond. My gal is nw 8 1/2 mths . Take heart, dear parents. He cant even get close to here with a crying. My Baby Doesnt Want Me and Im The Mom!? One is of course that it will bring baby and dad closer, which is probably not something you see as important right now, but in the long run, being close to both parent is optimal. It is still, however, important to take into consideration a few things before actually going back to work: . We read that you should not try to introduce the bottle until baby is about 5 weeks old and that someone else besides mom should try feeding the baby with a bottle at least the first few times. Please think long and hard before you do so, and before you delude yourself into thinking that leaving the baby with someone other than you for extended periods is no big deal. Because I was in a very bad place myself over this issue, I understand your pain and encourage you in the strongest terms to get support for yourself. She was a real daddys girl up to about 3 months ago. They live in the moment and cannot cope with the longing, because they have no real sense of time. It also sounds as if you are not in a place where you feel supported or comforted in your experiences. I just got back to my parents and was so relieved to see my son but he acted and is acting uninterested in me but my husband got a huge happy reaction from our baby. Try to let her keep it any way you can (but not on the phone for such a little girl). Shortly after my now 6 1/2 month old daughter was born my mother was laid off and I had to go back to work. Adjustment takes time. Time spent together is with no doubt also very important, but above all, continue to show your daughter how much you love her. Thank you thank you thank you!! So Ive tried to improve, and honestly, Ive seen positive results very quickly. This cookbook contains about 200 recipes and photos of how to make delicious meals easily and quickly. Its just so strange I dont know what to do!! hi, im a mom and i have a problem with my son 17 months oldthat when he gets hurt or fall down and starts to cry he doesnt come to me ,he wants anyone but me .if his dady was available he wants to go to him even if another strange person was available he goes to him and leave me when i try to hold him. But I feel like there are some differences, too. no more crying out 2 daddy when she has a tummy ache.and she hasbecome so excited whn i come home frm work.My husband and I lives in a different continent due to the nature of my work, and he wd come to stay wt us 2-3 times a year at around 5 weeks to 2 months a time.So whn he left for Asia when our baby is 2 months old, we established a routine using the internet via webcam and video calls every single day. Maybe cuddle up the three of you in her bed for a little story or lullaby? i try everything from holding her close to rocking her to talking to her and NOTHING WORKs.i then give her to grandma and she is quite and happy almost immediatly. For you, later bedtimes may equal more fun time with baby. Or I bundle them together, rather than giving each one of them time. this is just a phase. You are not alone, you have not done anything wrong and you should not be feeling this sad. He now prefers my mom over me and could care less if Im around. Pennsylvania mom Rebecca Shumard gave birth to daughter Eden at 27 weeks. I dont know how to explain this to him, I just wanted to say, its not my problembut on the other hand, i dont KNOW what the problem is either! When I pick her up from her caregivers house after work, I am so excited because I count down the minutes until I see my precious baby only to get her in my arms and have her reach out for her caregiver. I kind of hid behind work and did not take the time to bond with my baby boy. I often wonder if it was like a viscious circle: he didnt want me, I got upset, he didnt want to be around me because I was upset, which made me more upset, which made him even less inclined to be around me and so on and so on. Quote #4. My mum never praised me or said how pretty I looked even now, after a long holiday she said not even giving me a proper hug or kiss your hot. At least I say to my baby boy that I love him that am proud of him. But the emotional part of me feels devastated. From all the comments that I read, we all seem to have one more thing in common, we all show our love & affection to our babies so they definitely know they are loved.. My baby was very attached to me but now she doesnt love me at all, she only wants my mother, she even calls her mama and she doesnt call me anything, she only wants to be with her , when she is sick or not sick, when she is sleepy etc She cries when my mom goes out and when my mom comes home she gets very happy and runs to her, i have cried every night for the past 2 weeks it hurts me so bad to see her not loving me, on the weekends i go out with her alone trying to spend more time with her, but its doesnt work at all!!!! Such a silly situation. lying down or the underarm hold). To start, focus on playing and engaging with him in a fun, even nonsensical way. Ignore the unwanted behaviour and praise the good an all that but God its hard when my feelings are in shreds. i feel sad and discouraged i know that i shouldnt show it to her.. but i often wonder where i went wrong. Here are three women on how they felt: Mom 1 shared that during the first pregnancy, she stayed at home for the first nine months. Very hopeful! Even for biological parents, bonding is something that happens over time. No phone, no talking to your wife, no planning of the next day at work. Here is the background: Ive been dating my boyfriend for over a year but knew him and his daughter since she was 8 months. Though it is nice to know Im not the only one to suffer from a similar situation, it doesnt solve it. My son is 9 months old and , Ive always taken care of him feed, everything he needs Ive been by his side since we left the hospital, now that I moved to another state he doesnt call me momma anymore he calls it to his grandma he just doesnt seem to need me anymore . A lot of research has found the childs first 3 years to be the most important for bonding, so you still have a lot time. If this board is any indication it happens quite a bit. Some moms return to work just a few weeks after having a baby, while others take up to a year (or longer) of maternity leave. My wife is set on the fact that she will not change her behavior towards his daily activities. she is taken care by my husbands mother . Im teaching and comes back home in the early evening. Babies and moms dont automatically bond; just like anyone else they need to spend time together. RIght now he is identifying with dad. Some things you can try to reconnect faster are to: Laugh together! Its easy to be an outsider giving advice, but take it from someone who felt similarly rejected by her own child, I really urge you to consider seeking help and support from a source not on the inside of your situation. you are a good mother. If she is with me then she walks a way the moment she hears or sees her grandma. me and my partner were separated for awhile while i gave birth and then 7 months after that could she be missing my parents who are in a other country or is it something else. It is great that they help you out, so that you can finish school, but the situation with your daughter is obviously breaking your heart. please give me some advice. Hi me too but my baby is only 4 months old. Offensively taken, it means that im not a good mother!? should i stop my caregiver from sleeping next to her to maybe stop them from being too close? i leave for college and am out of the house by 5am he doesnt realize im even gone but when i come back at 11am hes fine and playing with grandma untile he sees me and i go give him a hug and kiss and im ready to play and its like a switch he starts crying for hours! Moms Question: My daughter is now almost 10 months old and cries even when I walk by. She was with me mornings and nights. I thought I was doing the best thing for myself and my daughter. Hello all moms I am glad to know that this may be just a phase I am a 24 year old mom first child. Fertility benefits increase loyalty, productivity, and fulfillment. While the rate for men with children under 18 hovered between 92.2% and 95.3% depending on child age, the rate for women with children under 18 ranged from 63.8% and 77%. To all that have posted their thoughts in regards to what I felt was complete rejection. At the moment we are living in India with my husband and his parent, my son seems to be attached to them more than me. An infection or poor breastfeeding latch issue removed the ability to nurse for a short period of time. I just googled and found this website.. and saw I was not alone. Honestly I dont know what to do and I am tired of my ex making me feel horrible each time he says she doesnt want to leave or having it written up in court papers thinking there is abuse. She really doesnt like me and its getting worse. I hate that she calls my mom mama im nothing to her its breaking my heart please someone help me. as soon as she hears my moms voice or her caretaker, she would perk up and try to crawl to them, not wanting me to hold her anymore. I just want to know what is going on with my child and why she is acting out like this. And then I would try to get busy with something else and just basically not make a bigger deal than it already was for me. I have also now noticed that she is being the same with both grandmothers, neither of which she sees more than once a week, If I take her off them she cries and goes to them when she is scared etc even if I am next to them. Fellow mommy Im very concerned about you. Even when I say hi or try and pick her up and kiss her, she doesnt want anything to do with me. However, I am so worried that my initial sadness has somehow rubbed off on him and he would rather be with anyone else but me. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. At 15 months, she lives in the present. So, yes, absolutely discuss how you can help each other more. By the time all my training was done may daughter was 14 months old and had been with my mother the entire time. I know I should be thankful that my Mom is there and takes such good care of my daughter but most days I am just resentful. Since attachment can be an issue for adopted children, your question and worries really show what an engaged new mother you are. I want her to love me again! My partner is financially tied to a mortguage with his ex wife so I have to support myself and will have to go back to work. When you feel rejected, she will sense your reactions and you end up in vicious circle of guilt, sadness, rejection, and more sadness and guilt. Feeling rejected and unloved from my only daughter is really sad and depressing. Being a brand new baby with acid reflux, she was in pain trying to eat and probably very frustrated too. she still seems to prefer my husband if hes around, but really, when she gets hurt or feels bad, its me she clings to. I wrote on this post when my son was 9 mos and again when he was about a year old. Im starting to worry about the mother. Im in a bit of a no win situation here, I am expecting my first child with my partner, he has a daughter by a previous marriage , my job requires me to work out of the country for 4 weeks then I get 4 weeks off at home and so on. They might have some preference at 1 point or the other, bt just continue loving them and they wd return it back eventually. Sorry & also o forgot to put in that script is that everything we buy our son they have to go & buy the better 1. for Christmas this year we have got him an elmo live which is a interactive toy so they said or well we will get him the big foot live then but why does he need 2 interactive toys it just seems like competition 2. I know it is hard and scary and painful after many months of being pregnant and then being everything for a child. Im going back to work next month so I started bottle fed baby at 2.5 mo 3 weeks ago. i also wrote here several months ago. That's where you come to her rescue and change all that with this gift for a mom going back to work. Do whatever it takes to push her to her place. It is so important that you separate this! And console her when she is sad. Running away like that is completely unacceptable. I thought my son did this because of his cesarean and my dh being the one to help. In fact, seems to be a little bit of a common trend in babies around this age. I am in a similar state..My daughter has chosen my husband and my MIL always over me..I had a C section and whenever she used to cry as a newborn my MIL would come and whisk her away..Dad was her all time fav cos he would sing to her in his deep voice..I comforted myself saying that it would all be fine but she is one year old now and I see no improvement..When she is crying, she doesnt want me.My MIL whisks her away and she stops crying in a sec..My MIL thinks I am not doing a good job as a mon and that erodes my confidence as a working woman and a mom..I regret having my baby sometimes even though she is the most beautiful angel in my eyes..I cry and I have a diary written for her to read when she becomes a mom..On the overall I dont feel like a mom..My daughter doesnt hug me..She doesnt call me Mama.She hugs her dad and grandma all the time and says even Apple and Papa..I guess I am just not meant to live!! What i am trying to say is dont u think that his granddad is trying his god damn hardest to take my farther figure away & take my bond away. Well tomorrow I am returning back to work and he is going to daycare Monday through Friday. I mean, how could we not be depressed when our babies seem to reject us? But I think something else is equally important if not more. It is very common for babies to prefer one parent over the other for periods. thank you for writing tips on coping. I have just put my 8 mth old to bed and was going to come into my room and cry I went back to work 3 wks ago and he has been ill on and off this week. amitabh bachchan interview 1984; breckenridge mn high school; baby rejecting mom after going back to work. But they arent helping your relationship with your child. The Reddit . But Im not so sure now, I think my daughter doesnt know Im her mother. I will try that and let everyone know how it goes. have a 7 month old baby and have been going through the same thing ever since he was born. as a side note: i think post-partum depression is viewed as a shameful thing. Is that true? But she adores my husband (and he hardly spends any time with her at all). (And have your partner or another caregiver do the feedings, so your baby gets used to taking her meals from someone else.) I say with us because me and her father are engaged and living together. It isn't exactly easy, balancing the needs of your child with likely way less sleep than you're used to, while trying to be the same employee you were before you left. If we know why this is happening maybe we can change it! With planning, you can meet your breastfeeding goals while at work or school. Why is that so? This is even almost causing friction between mom and I because I try to spend time with my daughter anyway and she just screams and mom wants me to just leave her alone. going to bed, having her diaper changed, eating (weve had problems with her wanting to eatanother issue entirely), etc.). After some time, if all adults involved really try to focus on what is best for the baby and put their personal feelings aside, things will eventually turn out well. I would lay down my life for my son without hesitation. (cross-post with Working Moms) I go back to work in a week and my 2.5 month old daughter refuses to take bottles. Do you think itll pass? Must be very painful for the mother. Since you live with your parents, your situation is quite similar to that of all dads (usually), who work and come home, only to find that their child prefers mom, who is around all the time. my daughter is now one year old and our bond has strengthened. Tips for Going Back to Work After Baby and Easing into a Routine. I guess i am being silly. If must be terribly hard to be away so much from your family and then come home and not feel welcome. Crying is normal but the baby will adjust: "Sorry to hear about what's going on, but we've all been there in some way or another, so you're not alone. Also, when you come home, try to be together with them together with your wife as much as possible, so that their separation anxiety regarding mom doesnt come between the three of you. Since she was born my parents have always been around helping and visiting. I'm very upset that she is rejecting the bottle. Paula. Face the baby outward in the baby carrier where she can see and become distracted. I work very part time 3 days a week for a total of 16 hours. Fight for your baby. for example, is perfect for a baby with separation anxiety. Try carrying your baby's photo with you at your workplace. Sure, we would have had playdates and gone out into the world, but at 6 months, this kid already has friends. It's never easy dealing with a toddler rejecting mom. Not all babies become this sensitive, and it does seem as if your daughter is feeling quite secure. Treat breastfeeding like dessert and offer the breast after your baby has had a bottle. You can read more about baby development at different months here. I even think sometimes grandma secretly enjoys doing this to me. I have a 2 year old daughter. My daughter prefers my mother, as she looks after her while Im at college. First thing to remember is to feed the baby. i dun get to spent time with her during weekdays..my husband dun understand me wat i am going through . Do a couple of test runs before going back to work after baby. Go swimming, play in the snow, go to the playground or just do something together that both of you enjoy. In addition, you could leave a used t-shirt them, to be used for naptime, for example, so your smell is as familiar as possible. I come from work and he doesnt care if I am there I feel horrible because if my sister comes he gets so so happy and he crawls so fast to her and he wants her to carry him I get so sad but I keep it inside until tonight I just couldnt I cried and thought does he not love me? I try to fix this by not responding to the kid and shouting at her and show her that I am bad. On the Internet Viral Reddit Baby Family. Secondly, it will help you and your hubby becoming partners in parenting more. What he really needs might be to have more fun and more time with his dad. I am already so worried how my baby will cope with me being away for 4 weeks at a time . I would actually bet on the second explanation, since you write that you did build a strong bond with her during her first 6 months. my 13 month old is having the worth temper tandrums ever. I dont usually do online chatting, but I needed to get this off my chest. why is he acting like im the worst person in the world? !<3 n Yes no matter how they are with you, you love them soooooo much without something in return! I came every 3 hours for every feeding after i was released from the hospital, MUCH more than the parents of the other infants, even the nurses would comment how good my baby was doing, due to my presence and nurturing. Please help!!!!! You are and always will be their only mother. up at night, etc) but when our baby sees his dad he smiles and knows that for the next 20-30 minutes dear daddy is going to throw him up in the air and play. Its putting a lot of strain on our relationship. Ever. Find reliable childcare Getting childcare is one of the toughest aspects of going back to work. Any idiot can get pregnant but being a loving mother is something entirely different. When we come home from work he just looks to his dad happily and seems like im not ther, it was so dissapointing and depressing. I also had postpartum for the first 3 or 4 mos and I actually do think that had a role in the bonding problems I had with my baby. I am in the same position yet I do not work. you cant help it. This is the age when separation anxiety and stranger anxiety may come in full force. Try the sleep and switch. Thank you so much for responding so quickly! It is a short time when our children really need us as badly as when they are babies and young toddlers. Our song hs never stoppd being sung even my hsband ws around. It won't be easy, but working with dad to share the load becomes much easier. This could change any day. I understand so much the pain you are going through. I do everything my mother does yet apparently I dont love her enough!! A phase i am returning back to work in a week for a short time when babies... 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